15 Things You Do That Turn Him Off While Having Sex

It is true that sex is natural but sometimes, it’s easy to get carried away and say or do a few things that can be a complete turn off!

Are you turning your guy off by the things you do or say in bed?

The things you do that turn him off

It may seem unbelievable to you, but it’s true.

There are few things girls do that turn guys off or leave them frustrated.

It’s the little things you may think is funny, like the way you toy with his little guy or the way you smack yourself against his balls when you’re riding him!

Every now and then, your man may look the other way and pretend like it didn’t just annoy him.

But if it’s something that’s become a bit of a routine, he may find it easier to just avoid having sex with you instead of having to confront the issue.

The bigger issue of turning a guy off

In the beginning, it’s funny.

But over time, the little things you say or do could traumatize a guy or even impact him psychologically on a deeper level. It may even make him hate sex, make him feel inadequate, or just leave him unsatisfied. It’s not like guys can ever hate sex. The problem with turning him off is that it may make him hate having sex with you!

15 things you do that turn him off while having sex!

Here are a few things that can annoy any guy in bed. They may be the little things you probably don’t even realize. But keeping an eye on these 15 big turn-offs for a guy while having sex with him will ensure that he’s one satisfied guy who’s not going to be looking beyond the relationship for pleasure!

#1 Foreplay expectations. It’s natural that a girl expects foreplay in bed. It’s even acceptable if you expect him to indulge in foreplay before he gets on top of you. But are you the kind of girl who expects him to go down on you each time for a good half an hour and still spend a while teasing you and running his hands all over you?

Do you pout or roll your eyes if your guy doesn’t worship you with his hands and tongue until he’s exhausted before penetrating you? Nagging your partner constantly to indulge in excessive foreplay could scare him, or make him think twice before he even tries to sneak in a quickie with you ever again.

#2 Dirty interrogations. Do you dirty talk with your partner in bed? Does he talk about his dark fantasies while having sex with you? You need to remember that dirty talking is just that, and not something you need to take seriously or feel threatened by.

If your partner tells you about how he’d like to watch you with someone else, or a fictional story about how he grabbed another girl’s ass at a party, do you stop him right there and start interrogating him in bed? Dirty talking is a wild imagination and not necessarily something that’s true. If you constantly ask your partner to explain himself, during or after sex, he’ll just end up clamming up each time both of you have sex.

#3 A wannabe porn star. Guys hate girls who try too hard in bed or try to display a fake sense of confidence when they’re clearly clumsy and inexperienced. Do you try to deep-throat a guy only to gag over him? Or do you grab him by his hair and place his head on your breasts even when he’s not in the mood because that’s what they do in the movies? Trying to dominate a guy in bed or take control is good, but don’t overdo the porn star act all the time, or you’ll kill the mood.

#4 The loss of erection. When your guy loses his erection for whatever reason, do you immediately start blaming yourself? Do you sit back and say things like “I get it… I’m ugly!” or “You’re not interested in having sex with me anymore, are you?”


If a guy loses an erection in the middle of sex, believe me, he’s extremely annoyed with himself already. Don’t make it ten times worse for him by getting irritated, or by making this about you!

#5 Bored sex. This is a big turn-off for any guy who’s in a relationship with a girl. If you’re not in the mood, just say it! Don’t pretend like things are dandy, get into bed and have sex with your guy, and appear bored and dispassionate like you’re getting nothing out of it.

A guy can know instantly if his girlfriend’s actually horny in bed just by looking into his girlfriend’s eyes while making love. Pity sex is good, but only if you’re enjoying it too. If you just appear bored, it’ll make the guy shrivel up inside you in seconds.

#6 Orgasm faces. Guys love an orgasm face. But if you’re a big fan of making eccentric orgasm expressions in bed, like rolling your eyes up until the white of your eye is the only thing he can see, or shaking violently, your guy may not tell it to your face, but his erection would shrink significantly as soon as you sees your cum face.

#7 No touching! Every guy loves a girl who is confident in bed. And you need to remember that confidence in bed doesn’t always depend on how good you look naked. If your boyfriend moves his hand on a particular part of your body, do you stop his hands and push them away often?

You may think it’s no big deal, but each time you do that, your boyfriend would feel just a little more turned off by your behavior. Remember, your guy loves you for who you are. But each time you bring your insecurities into bed, you’re killing the pleasure passionate sex can give you.

#8 Weird behavior. Do you feel teary-eyed after you have sex? Do you love cuddling up with a guy even if it’s a one night stand? Or do you expect the guy to pillow talk with you for hours even if he’s feeling sleepy? This is something that’s to each her own, but if your guy says something you do in bed is weird, take the hint!

#9 The list of instructions. Do you come to bed with a list of instructions? Faster! Slower! Not there yet! Why aren’t your hands on my boobs?! Do you constantly yell at your boyfriend to go deeper even when he’s jammed his pelvis into your crotch?

A guy may be grateful to you if you playfully tease or guide his hands to all the right places. But if you’re a control freak who wants everything done her way all the time, he’d definitely get pissed off with you.

#10 Teasing him. Do you tease your guy or laugh at him when he ejaculates too soon accidentally? Or do you baby talk him or ask him if he’s suffering from a problem while he’s still cleaning himself up? Sexually teasing a guy is good, but teasing a guy for his capabilities is just so wrong!

#11 Chore sex. “I’m ovulating today, let’s have sex!” Sex should never feel like a chore. The very day sex starts to feel like a chore is when the sexual side of the relationship starts to go downhill. If you really want to get your guy to have sex with you for any reason at all, tease him into it instead of forcing the idea down his throat. No guy likes being forced into having sex because guys usually choke under pressure. And the whole experience just makes him feel used!

#12 “Are you done yet?” This is a sentence every guy completely dreads. It’s a low blow on so many levels, because it makes a guy realize the girl’s not having any fun and is probably not interested too, and at the same time, it also means the girl just wants him out ASAP! Every time you say this line, he’s just going to hate having sex with you, just a little bit more!

#13 Obviously fake orgasms. So you’ve faked an orgasm. And chances are, your guy’s realized it too. Your guy may feel the blow, but he’d tell himself that he’ll be better the next time. Just leave it at that.

Guys hate it when a girl fakes an obvious orgasm and then goes on to repeatedly tell the guy just how awesome the sex was. It makes a guy feel stupid, and it also makes him wonder whether you’re pulling his leg or just assuming he’s plain dumb! Either way, it’s not going to leave him happy.

#14 Unmanageable coochie. A guy may not say this to your face because he wouldn’t want to hurt your feelings. But if he’s not going down on you often, it’s probably because you have an unmanageable coochie in your panties.

Guys do want to go down on a girl *unless you’re nagging him to do it all the time!* but if you have a wild forest in your panties or you haven’t really been too hygienic lately, he may choose to wrap the blanket tighter around his neck to avoid getting turned off by the things going on down there!

#15 You’re a prude. If you aren’t experienced in bed, your guy may be thrilled by the fact that he’s the first one teaching you the tricks of the trade. But if you’re a prudish girl who’s easily offended by anything sexual, or if you push him away each time he wants to try something in bed, it’ll obviously turn him off. And it gets worse if you never initiate sex and always want to play the part of the prude who just doesn’t like sex at all!

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