What are some unwritten social rules everyone should know?
There are many unwritten social rules that vary depending on the culture, community, and situation. Here are some general ones that are commonly expected in most societies:
- Say “please” and “thank you” when asking for or receiving something.
- Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
- Respect personal space and boundaries of others.
- Do not interrupt someone when they are speaking.
- Use polite language and avoid swearing in formal settings.
- Do not speak loudly on the phone or in public places.
- Queue up or wait your turn in line.
- Offer your seat to an elderly, pregnant, or disabled person.
- Dress appropriately for the occasion or setting.
- Be punctual and arrive on time for appointments and events.
- Avoid talking about controversial or sensitive topics such as politics or religion in polite company.
- Hold the door open for others.
- Say “excuse me” when trying to get someone’s attention or moving past them.
- Do not double dip or put your fingers in a shared food dish.
- Do not talk with your mouth full.
- Respect people’s personal space and avoid standing too close to them, especially if you don’t know them well.
- Don’t talk about other people behind their backs.
- Apologize if you accidentally bump into someone or make a mistake that affects them.
- Avoid using your phone or other electronic devices during face-to-face conversations or meetings.
- When someone is telling you a story or sharing something important, actively listen and show interest.
- Don’t assume someone’s gender, race, or sexual orientation based on their appearance.
- Respect other people’s opinions, even if you don’t agree with them.
- Don’t make assumptions about someone’s financial situation, education level, or social status.
- When dining with others, wait until everyone is served before starting to eat.
- Don’t take up more than your fair share of space in public areas, such as on public transportation or in a crowded elevator.
Again, keep in mind that these unwritten social rules may vary depending on the culture, community, and situation. It’s always a good idea to observe and follow the behavior of those around you, and to ask for clarification if you’re unsure about a specific rule.